If a guy mocks your voice, you might want to know what that means.
After all, every time a guy mocks you it feels like he’s making fun of you.
So, what does it mean when a guy mocks your voice? If a guy mocks your voice it means he likes you. Though it doesn’t feel like a compliment, mocking your voice is actually a guy’s way of showing you he cares and that he finds you attractive.
However, there are quite a few different reasons why a guy would mock your voice.
In this post, you’ll learn what it means when a guy mocks your voice, and what to do about it.
What Does It Mean When a Guy Mocks Your Voice?
Below is a list of the most common reasons why a guy would mock your voice.
He Likes You
According to experts, male mocking behavior is usually an involuntary response to attraction.
So, if a guy mocks your voice there’s a good chance he likes you.
Whether it’s because he wants to be interesting or funny, in most cases, a guy mocks your voice because he likes you.
He Thinks You’re Attractive
It’s actually a positive indicator because it shows that the guy is attracted to you.
Though, if his only goal is to make you laugh, he might not be interested in a long-term relationship.
However, in the vast majority of cases, a guy mocks your voice because he finds you attractive.
Usually, it’s guys who aren’t fully mature yet that mock your voice.
For example, a guy who’s just a teenager might mock your voice because he really likes you and he doesn’t know how to show you.
He’s Joking Around
Though not as common as the first two reasons, some guys will mock your voice as a joke.
If he’s trying to be funny, you shouldn’t take it personally.
If he’s doing it to be adorable, you might wonder if he likes you or something more.
However, this is usually just a guy’s way of showing he enjoys your company and that you should laugh with him.
He Thinks You’re Nervous
If you get nervous around guys, they might mock your voice out of concern.
That’s because guys are often very attuned to the opposite sex and they can tell when you’re nervous.
Just like he knows when you’re feeling sick, insecure, or afraid, he also knows when you’re shy and nervous.
So, when a guy mocks your voice it’s probably because he thinks you’re shy and insecure about something, not because he’s trying to make fun of you.
It’s his way of trying to make you feel more comfortable.
However, if you get nervous around a lot of guys, this might be the wrong approach he’s taking.
In that case, you’ll want to speak with him about it.
Just be straight with him and tell him that you find it a little overwhelming when he mocks your voice.
He’s Feeling Vulnerable
Mocking behavior is usually unconscious, meaning it comes out without the guy even realizing it.
That’s why, if a guy mocks your voice, he might actually feel vulnerable underneath it all.
For example, if he’s just insecure about himself or unsure of his abilities around you, he might mock your voice.
Though it doesn’t mean he is a bad guy, it’s a sign that he’s not completely comfortable around you.
However, if you’re with a good guy he’ll feel comfortable enough with you to stop mocking your voice.
Just like we feel safe and secure around people we care about, a guy feels safe and secure around you when he isn’t mocking your voice.
He’s Telling You He Loves the Way You Sound
When a guy mocks your voice it means something different than when other people make fun of you.
Typically, if someone else mocks your voice they’re making fun of you.
But, when a guy mocks your voice he’s actually complimenting it.
I know…
It’s weird, but it’s true.
If a guy mocks your voice it’s because he thinks you have a really cute, attractive, or alluring voice.
So, if you like him and want the relationship to work out, don’t take it personally.
Just appreciate that he loves your voice and that’s why he’s teasing you.
Remember, if a guy mocks your voice it doesn’t mean he hates you or that he’s trying to hurt your feelings.
It just means he finds you attractive in some way.
Just think of it as his way of trying to flirt with you.
When a guy mocks your voice, he might not be sure how else to show you he likes you.
That’s why, if you like him back and he teases your voice, feel free to tease his (in a flirty way, of course).
Just be careful not to turn it into a game, because that might freak him out.
Just tell him you really like the way he laughs or the sound of his voice.
In other words, try to compliment him as a person and not just his ability to mock your voice.
In turn, that might actually make him stop mocking your voice and start complimenting you more directly.
Either way, it’s important to understand that when a guy mocks your voice he’s just trying to show he likes you.
What To Do When A Guy Mocks Your Voice
Now that you understand the different reasons a guy might mock your voice it’s time to talk about what to do when it happens.
Don’t Like It? Make Him Stop
First of all, you’ll want to be confident in yourself and your relationship with the guy in question.
If you have strong feelings for the guy who’s mocking you, tell him that you like him and you want him to stop mocking your voice.
Just say that it makes you uncomfortable.
You might be surprised at how well this works.
Just explain to him that you’ve had it done before by guys who are insecure and have turned the mocking behavior into a game to see who could get the most laughs.
If he’s not trying to play a mean joke on you, this might be all it takes to get him to stop.
Mock Him Back
Even if you like the guy you might feel a little uncomfortable when he mocks your voice.
To help you come up with the best way to handle this, think about what you do when someone else makes fun of your voice.
If you’re like most people, you’ll probably either laugh it off or fight back.
You could, in a funny way, mock him back about something completely different.
For example, you could tell him that he sings off-tune in the shower or that his laugh is totally embarrassing in public.
However, you should only mock him if you both feel comfortable joking around with each other.
Don’t do it if you don’t think the guy’s going to take it in a funny way or if he’s going to take it too seriously.
Remember, guys are competitive and they don’t like losing.
So, make sure you think about the best way to mock him back before you try it.
If you think the guy might take it as a personal insult instead of a joke, skip it.
Realize Flirting Isn’t Easy for Guys
When a guy mocks your voice, be gentle with him.
It can be hard for guys to flirt in certain ways because they’re trying not to seem too eager or aggressive.
Realize that when a guy teases your voice he’s just trying to show you that he likes you.
He might not be good at it, but that’s okay.
He might need to be taught how to do it properly, but that’s what dating is for.
Just have fun with it and try not to take things too seriously.
Let Him Know How It Feels
If you can tell that he’s mocking your voice because he likes you and feels awkward about it, tell him that.
For example, you might say something like “I can tell that you really like me when you say that.”
This shows him how it feels to be on the receiving end of this kind of teasing.
He might not even realize that he’s actually bothering you, but it never hurts to let guys know when they’re doing something you don’t like.
This way, he will stop doing it because he’ll realize it’s bothering you and not because you told him to stop.
After all, don’t guys love doing anything that makes you happy?
Final Thoughts
If a guy mocks your voice then he probably likes you.
He might not know any other way to show it, which isn’t so bad.
You can’t really get mad at a guy for trying to show off his feelings in the only way he knows how.
As long as you stay aware of what’s going on, you can make the whole thing fun.
Just be confident and don’t take things too seriously.
Remember, there are some serious benefits to having a guy make fun of your voice.
That’s why it’s so important to not get mad when this happens.
He might be doing it for all the right reasons, you just have to make sure you’re doing it for all the right reasons, too.