It’s a common question asked by many women.
“How many times a day do guys think about the girl they like?”
But the truth is, if you are able to get into his head, it’s not easy to answer that question.
Men jump from different thoughts and usually think multiple things at once.
And let’s be honest here – women are very interesting creatures!
Who knows how many thoughts men may have about them?
I did some research on this topic and talked to some men I know very well, and I want to share with you their responses.
How many times a day does a guy think about the girl he likes?
According to most of the men I asked, here are some of their thoughts:
- “We think about the girl we like all day long! Just give us a task and we’ll be happy”
- “Sometimes I can think about her all day long, but sometimes I don’t even remember she exists at all. So you never know!”
- “I think a guy can think about a girl he likes from minutes to hours each day. It depends on his mood and what’s going on in his life.”
The answer to this question is different for everyone.
Now, obviously, this is going to differ depending on if the person is in a relationship or not.
The more serious the relationship, the more times per day one will think about their partner.
“If someone is in a relationship, then they may think about the person they are with all day long.
If I am making conversation with my girlfriend or just thinking about her, that’s considered ‘thinking about. It doesn’t have to be a constant conversation.”
It is estimated that on average people have 60,000 thoughts each day.
At times we tend to block out and avoid what we think about.
This can happen in many situations: interpersonal relationships, work, and even with our hobbies.
The sad thing is that we can’t control some of these thoughts!
And this is one of the reasons we sometimes get jealous of other people; because they get to think about them sometimes without us.
On average people have 60,000 thoughts each day.
Of those 60,000 thoughts, only a small number are thoughts we think about ourselves!
This means that our friends and family have more thoughts about us than we do ourselves.
It is true that the majority of our thoughts come from others.
If a guy likes a girl will he think of her often?
Yes, when a guy likes a girl he thinks about her a lot. It can be a few times a day or it can be every second of the day!
This really depends on the person and how much he likes this girl.
It is even possible that he thinks about her as soon as she leaves his sight.
“When I like a girl, I can think about her all day long.”
But the bottom line is that every guy has different thoughts about girls.
This means that no one can give you an answer to this question.
As with everything in life, it depends on what you are looking for and what you want to achieve.
What do guys think when talking to a girl?
Guys think the same things as girls do. We process things in our minds, and sometimes it’s hard to understand what another person is thinking.
Guys think about how they look, if the girl is interested in them, and what they should say next.
They try to stay positive but at the same time not appear too eager or pushy.
For example, when a guy thinks about how he looks, he is wondering if she will think that he is attractive.
And when he thinks about what to say next, he tries to keep the conversation going without being boring or annoying.
Most guys are always thinking about themselves, others, and the future.
We may seem selfish sometimes but it’s not our fault.
“We are always trying to improve ourselves and be better in every area of our lives.
Men want to take care of their families and make sure that they are safe. We always think about what we can do for others and how we can help.
We try to be funny and confident in our interactions with the opposite sex. But when it comes to thinking, we all think about ourselves and what we can do to improve ourselves.”
This is one of the reasons why we hesitate in some situations.
A lot of guys are worried about what it means if they are always thinking about the girl they are interested in.
They are worried that she will think that he can’t be happy without her.
Guys worry about all these thoughts because they want her to be interested in him.
We are all human beings, and human beings have feelings.
When we are interested in someone, we have these kinds of thoughts.
“When I am interested in a girl, I can think about her all the time. She is always on my mind! But this is normal because it shows that you are really interested in her.”
Women may worry about these thoughts but they do not worry as much as men do.
Women understand that this is completely natural and there is nothing to worry about.
Final Thoughts
So, guys think about girls that they like many times during the day.
Hundreds if not thousands of times!